news flash: images are up!
2.1.2017
We finally stopped turtlin' around and posted our wedding and photobooth pictures.
The links at the top of the page will take you to the images.
We finally stopped turtlin' around and posted our wedding and photobooth pictures.
The links at the top of the page will take you to the images.
Just a casual lil ceremony in the desert, followed by dinner and drinks.
Dress comfortably, and come prepared to let loose and celebrate!
Scroll to the bottom of the page for FAQ, Directions, Etc.
4pm-4:45pm
Have a drink and a snack while you enjoy and explore the setting, play some games, and meet members of the tribe.
*If you're driving in, please allow additional time for finding the location and parking. Scroll down for directions.
5:00pm
Pick a hay-bale and have a seat. Bring a tissue.
5:30pm–It ends when it feels right
A toast, followed by a casual dinner, then the celebration of love begins.
This is a fun and loose outdoor event in a rugged desert location.
Daytime temps are in the 70s. At night temperatures can drop to the low 50s. Bring a coat, magical cloak, layers or blankets to walk around with. We will have a few space heater lounges on-site. Wear comfortable shoes you can dance in.
We highly suggest bringing shoes you can explore in.
Your presence is enough of a present to us! But for those of you who are stubborn, here's a link to our Honeyfund. We would also appreciate cards, DIY and anything we can put towards creative projects.
Do to the EXTREMELY limited parking at the location, please park at
Pappy & Harriet's restaurant and our shuttle will be making rounds. If you need to park at the location, please email rsvpfarout@gmail.com
Pappy & Harriets
53688 Pioneertown Rd
Pioneertown, CA 92268
Don't use GPS, Google Maps, Etc!!!!!!!!!
Please do not park at the event location unless you have emailed us in advance.
We will be posting pink "PHILULU" signs along the way.
We don't want to miss out on you, so please follow the directions below and look for our signs.
***Download our map here
FROM THE 10 FWY
Part 1: Take Hwy 62 East, up into Yucca Valley.
Once in Yucca Valley, turn left at the fourth stop light in Yucca Valley:
Pioneertown Road/Deer Trail Road.
Follow Pioneertown Road up the grade past Pappy & Harriet's bar.
Just past Pappy & Harriet's, Pioneertown Road makes a sharp right, then left.
Follow for approximately 3.5 miles to Pipes Canyon Road and turn right. (Pioneertown Road and Pipes Canyon road are the only paved roads in the area so if you are on a dirt road, you're off the path)
Follow Pipes Canyon Road for 2.1 miles to Acacia Street and turn left.
(You will see a large, chain-linked property on the left side)
Acacia is a dirt road.
Part 2: Follow Acacia Street for .6 miles.
Two or three other small dirt roads will dissect Acacia (don't take those)
At .6 miles, Acacia will dogleg to the right and become Boulder View Drive.
On the left side is wilderness, on the right a couple of houses.
Follow for .4 miles, past the windmill and you will see the driveway to the house, a rusty colored stucco ranch. The address is: 2900 Boulder View Drive.
FROM JOSHUA TREE
Take Old Woman Springs Road/Hwy 247 north from Hwy 62 to Pipes Canyon Road and make a left. Follow 4.3 miles to Acacia Street, make a right and follow the directions in part 2 above ^
RIDE SHARING
Carpooling is encouraged! Parking is limited. We will have shuttle service for a few local areas. If you want to use the shuttle, please email us and let us know where you are staying so we can coordinate pick up and drop off times and locations.
MYSTICAL TIDBITS
Pipes Canyon Lodge is a beautiful home on 18 acres of land that borders the Sand to Snow National Monument - 154,000 acres of protected desert and mountain land. Directly across from the house is Black Lava Butte, a stunning mass of rock standing tall over the property. It was once a place where Serrano Indian Chiefs and Shamans performed ceremonial rituals and dances on the peak. It is sacred ground.
Our good friend Rebecca Zephyr Thomas will be documenting the event. Her work has appeared in i-D, GQ Style, Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, Bullett, Tank, Dazed and Confused, Dansk, Juke, Nylon, L'Officiel, Flaunt, Little Joe, Wall Street Journal and Vice magazines. Lulu and Rebecca met in London in 2003 and have been causing trouble together since. Rebecca is currently working on a few projects in New Zealand, but flying out for the wedding! We plan on visiting her and getting a special underground tour of NZ when we go for our honeymoon. See her work here:
https://instagram.com/rebeccazephyrthomas/
Let these inspire you until the big day.
Good stuff takes time.
Phil and Lulu have known one another for many lives. In one of their earlier incarnations, Lulu remembers saying goodbye to Phil on a cliff before he left their city on a large boat for a reason that is unknown. She knew he wouldn't be coming back in that lifetime. They would have to wait.
When they met in 2011, they tried to rekindle their past life connection, but both had areas in their lives that needed attention before they were ready to join forces. They parted ways, but remained casual acquaintances, checking in from time to time. Three years passed, they crossed paths again, and this time, they knew they were ready.
After spending some time together as friends (going to events, movies and concerts together), Phil invited Lulu on a road trip to Big Sur. They shared several days together under the trees and stars. That's where they fell in love and their epic journey began.
Today they invite you to one of their favorite places to go for inspiration and connection as they unite and continue living their mantra, forever into the sunset... everyday is Saturday.
Q. When is the RSVP deadline?
Friday, October 7th, 2016
Q. Can I bring a date?
Please contact us. Space is limited at the location.
Q. Are kids welcome?
Yes, but there will be fine plant herbs on-site for adults wishing to let loose.
Q. What time should I arrive?
4pm
Q. Where should I park?
There is parking at the event location. Follow the pink "PHILULU" signs when you are on the dirt road.
Q. Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
Yes, but the floor is dirt, not cement.
Q. What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?
Wear comfortable shoes you can dance in and don't mind getting dirty. Or bring a spare for getting rugged in. There are areas to hike around the location. We highly suggest bringing shoes you can explore in.
Q. Whom should I email with questions?
Phil, Lulu, or
rsvpfarout@gmail.com
Q. Will food be served?
Yes, there will be food, dessert, booze, and herb 'mon.
Q. Is there transportation being provided between reception and hotels?
There will be a shuttle service running to and from the wedding location. Please email us by October 1st if you would like to utilize the shuttle and include the location where you will be staying.
Q. I am coming from out of town. Where should I stay?
Stay as close to Pipes Canyon Road as possible. The best options are Pioneertown, Yucca Valley, or Joshua Tree.
Q. Does your wedding have a theme?
Psychedelic fun times.
Q. Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Outdoors. The indoor area will only be accessible to our elder folk and babies needing TLC.
Q. Will there be dancing?
YAS!
Q. Will there be any activities happening that I need to know about?
We will have an area where you can lay on blankets and look up at the stars so dress appropriately for star gazing! There are cool rocks to hike on.
Q. Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?
Yes, but there isn't any phone service at the location. Sorry! (enjoy it)
Q. What time will the reception end?
Whenever it feels right.
Q. Is there a gifts registry?
Yes, sort of. visit https://www.honeyfund.com/wedding/philulu
Q. Are there any colors that guests should avoid wearing?
White or cream.
Q. How can I help the couple have the best time during their wedding day?
Relax and let loose. Let your inner troll out and give him/her a name.
Q. Will last names be changing after the wedding?
Probably. We think it's romantic.
Q. I have a question not answered here; how do I contact you?
Text/Email Lulu or Phil. If you're having trouble the day of the event, there is a land line at the house: 760-369-7368 (cell phones stop working while coming up the hill to pioneertown)
Q. Is there WIFI at the venue?
Pretty sure - it's rugged. We will have this information available on the day of the wedding.
Q. Should I wear formal attire?
NO, unless it's a part of who you are. Then, YES.